Why do people cheat? there are lots of explanations for this, and each individual has their own opinion on this topic.
Cheating is one of the most com man causes of relationship brake ups, as cheating brakes all the rules which makes a relationship, trust, loyalty, honor and respect. Some people cheat because they have no sexual connection with their loved ones, and want to put 'spice' into their love life...or some people are simply obsessed with sex!! Often doing so without thinking of the consequences.
Also, it becomes difficult when their is children involved and it can effect them immensely as it brakes their family 'routine'. As some parents have awful separations had the children do not know how to cope with the situation and may not have the support from others to get through it. Over the years adultery has increased substantially, as the consequences are not as bad as they used to be.
If someone has been with their partners for a long time, they are more than likely to know when something is not right by their behaviour for example ; "partners maybe become more attentive and nice, or on the con tray, indifferent and aggressive." http://www.peoplesrelationships.com/
The media pay great interest to cheating celebritys bad news' is 'good news' for some media. People seem very interested in celebrity brakes up and they want an insight of what has happened... but surly they wouldn't like their love life published across the world.
I agree with what you are saying, people cheat if they are unhappy with the relationship that they are in or if they are not getting enough sex within that relationship, it could be because that person is away all the time e.g civil services or because they simply don't have the same sex drive as the other person. however i feel that it is very unfair to cheat on a person, if you are unhappy tell them and try to work on it. if no resolution can be achieved i feel that you should end it before someone gets hurt.
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